Podcast #142: The Science of Dating and Mating

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Continue reading the main story A century later, a new batch of scientists began applying Darwinian doctrine to the conduct of mating, and specifically to three assumptions that endure to this day: In , Robert L. Given the relative paucity of ova and plenitude of sperm, as well as the unequal feeding duties that fall to women, men invest less in children.

A new study on internet dating insists we’re all looking for the best deal we can get, and that women max out in value at 18, men at Science has reduced the human-mating dance to.

With so many choices in dating, particularly with the rise of online sites and apps, what should make dating easier than ever seems to make it impossibly stressful. We have so many choices that we can’t feel satisfied about our choices — or choose at all. The more choices we have, the more difficult choosing can be. As one tweet summed it up, “Sometimes I worry that the love of my life is on a different dating app. Getty An overwhelming number of options can also lead us to muddle our dating criteria.

According to one measure , we now spend more time on Tinder than we do on Instagram or Facebook.

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It’s about the science of dating and mating and relating and all that jazz. You’re a evolutionary psychologist that’s written several books published in leading journals but you ended up partnering with Tucker Max on this book.

Share Shares 62 As humans, we have devised some strange and elaborate dating behaviors. Each culture tends to have its own conventional courtship rituals, but most involve money, makeup, gifts, or powerful smells. However, birds have taken song and movement to the next level—from mimicking a car horn to walking on water. Their fascinating courtship and mating rituals make our own dating attempts seem futile and boring. The red-capped manakin or Michael Jackson?

These whirrs, buzzes, and clicks all serve to impress the females and warn the other males not to encroach. The moonwalk is just one out of four common displays during courtship.

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Science, not romance, controls mating at Smithsonian’s National Zoo February 8, A male golden frog positions himself on the back of a female frog in a behavior called amplexis. Male golden frogs are quite persistent when it comes to mating and will amplex themselves to a specific female for days before mating with her. Unlike the spontaneous attraction that most humans equate with love and romance, mating and dating at the National Zoo is planned, strategic and science-based—quite an unromantic encounter.

Successful breeding is often much more complicated than putting a male and female together and expecting nature to take its course.

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More extensive evidence, largely ignored or brushed over by most of the agnostic scientific community, is contained in the excellent book In the Beginning by Walter T. More on that later. Let’s first look at: If an animal mates with another animal not of its exact species, the result will be a sterile creature e. If animals of a given species mate and produce an abnormal offspring i. Therefore, how could the macro evolutionary process advance? How could a “mutant” i. It would first have to be fertile itself.

It would have to find a sexually compatible mate who was also fertile during its relatively miniscule life span on the overall evolutionary time scale.

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Share shares The fish spends about six weeks building the structure that is 20 times its size, which also acts as a way to slow down the current in order to protect the eggs laid its potential mate And the male even adorns the circle with sand dollars and seashells to make it more attractive. Once a female approaches the mating area, it hovers in the center as a signal of approval.

The male swims over, snatches the female’s cheek and the two creatures begin to mate, however, the process only lasts for a few seconds.

Published by Blackwell Publishing Inc. 88 VOLUME 11, NUMBER 3, JUNE Abstract Have men and women evolved sex-distinct mating preferences for short-term and long-term mating, as postu-.

Here, a group of researchers tested this hypothesis by determining whether chickens have any innate preferences for certain human faces. To do so, they trained chickens to react to either an average human male or female face. They then showed the chickens a series of faces of different levels of attractiveness see Figure 1 below and measured how much the chickens pecked at each face a measure of their preference for the face.

Surprisingly, they found that the chickens preferred the same faces as did human volunteers in this case university students asked to rate the faces for attractiveness , suggesting that something about these faces makes them inherently more attractive to our nervous systems. So there you have it: Chickens prefer beautiful humans. In a subsequent test, the animals showed preferences for faces consistent with human sexual preferences obtained from university students.

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Forms of hypergamy have been practiced throughout history, including in India , imperial China , ancient Greece , the Ottoman Empire , feudal Europe , and the United States. Social learning theorists , however, say women value men with high earning capacity because women’s own ability to earn is constrained by their disadvantaged status in a male-dominated society.

They argue that as societies shift towards becoming more gender-equal, women’s mate selection preferences will shift as well. Some research support that theory, [8] including a analysis of a survey of 8, people in 37 countries, which found that the more gender-equal a country, the likelier male and female respondents were to report seeking the same qualities as each other rather than different ones.

Eighty-five percent of the women indicated that “As my status increases, my pool of acceptable partners decreases”. In contrast, 90 percent of men felt that “As my status increases, my pool of acceptable partners increases”.

Science has done much to deepen the beauty and wonder of everything from stars to thunderstorms, whales to honeybees, but something strange and ugly happens when scientists stick their curious noses into the world of human mating.

Are some guys scared off or disgusted by women who are hard-to-get? I have been divorced for 11 years and who knows? Maybe I will date again and when I do, the competition will be on. I want to go about it wisely and truly appreciate your advice. Recent research by David Buss and others shows that men who are playing the field and have no intention of committing will indeed dump women who demonstrate appropriate sexual restraint emotional restraint is fine with them, lol.

Well…everyone but the players. November 2, Duana C. I am sure your research is correct and that most men do hold such a world view. Your premise is that men will react this way because of such, however, it begs the question what percentage of men exist in a hierarchy? Are there cultures where all or nearly all men are hierarchical American men?

Frankly, it seems counterintuitive as people like to be liked, and therefore, will like those who like them more.

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